PRIVACY OF THOUGHTS

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The security of lives and the privacy of thoughts go hand in hand. Some lives are over-exposed.’ Pastor Poju Oyemade via Facebook.

One of the things that escalated the issues in my marriage was because I confided in someone who I thought was a friend only for me to start getting winds of her involvement with my then husband. We were praying and meeting together to discuss business and life generally. But because she knew there was already a crack in the marriage, she capitalised on that. Yes, things were not too rosy, but with her in the picture, they just got messier.

Now, the big lesson God taught me as He began to unveil the reasons for the myraid of issues I was having then is that the only information the enemy or people in general can use against you is the one you give to them. So, how about if we all just learn to maintain privacy of thoughts. Don’t over-expose the cracks in your life lest the serpent creeps in stealthily.

I am not talking about putting up a front and pretending that you have life together when you actually don’t. Rather I am talking about applying discretion when it comes to sharing personal issues, especially when it has to do with your marriage. Not all your friends need to know what is going on in your home, your next big idea or how much you get as house allowance.

If you want your life to be secured, then maintain privacy of thoughts!

Pearl

…helping you find the gains in your pain!

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2 thoughts on “PRIVACY OF THOUGHTS

  1. I recently got a classical season movie from a kid bruver on relationship/marriage. Very enlightening… “MUST WATCH” for anyone who wants to learn and be wise.

    Ironically, this series are coming from someone who is currently never married. God is whimsical I must tell you… Selah!!!

    Tyler Perry is my guy and I will forever be praying for him henceforth. His current season is “IF LOVING YOU IS WRONG”.

    There’s also “The Haves & The Have Nots”. This is another classic learner season series on relationship/marriage.

    These things MUST be learned before one sleeps with the enemy.

    Selah!!!

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